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Money Matters: Family Business: Family Filing System

Each family regardless of its size needs a filing system for family papers and records. Some ideas are listed below to help you handle your family financial and business affairs.

Family Business Center

Organize a specific place to use as your family finance center. It might be a desk in the kitchen, extra bedroom, or living room. This desk, coupled with an adequate file cabinet, should serve for your "active" files. Then you can have "dead" file storage anywhere in the house. In your family finance center be sure to have space to work and space to store all the things you need to manage finances; the budget book, checks (both canceled and unused), current receipts, "active" files, a calculator, adding machine, or computer with financial management software, pencils, paper, envelopes and stamps.

Handling the Money Matters

Don't worry about who should take charge of the finance center or money matters. It should be the person who has the time and temperament to take care of the details that every family's finances require. You, your spouse and even the older children may share the work involved. Just be sure everyone knows what his or her responsibilities are, how your filing system works, and how your system of financial control operates.

As dull as it can seem routine is important when it comes to handling financial matters. You don't have to do your bookkeeping every night of the week, but you do need to agree on some basic patterns of operation and then work together to follow them.

Timing

As an example, whoever gets the mail should know that all bills and other financial mail goes directly to your finance center, even if the business isn't taken care of until later. That way important mail doesn't get lost in the clutter on the dining room table or hall chest -- wherever the mail usually gets dropped in your home.

Try to follow a regular schedule for taking care of family financial matters. Set up a regular time when you balance the checkbook, fill in the family living expense account book or computer program, and pay bills. This can be at just one time during the month or several times -- you decide.

Agree on a regular monthly session when you go over financial matters in general. That's when you may decide to discuss major buying plans, vacations, and other financial matters the entire family should know about.

Purpose of Home Files

Your home files serve three purposes:

  1. To help you manage daily family financial matters;
  2. To make records and business papers readily available;
  3. And to keep older records out of your way so you have a more effective finance center for your family.

The following are suggested file folders for you to have in your "active" file as your finance center: (You may not need all of them or you may want to add some to this system. Whatever works best for you -- that's why you have a filing system in the first place -- so it will work for you.)

Active Files

PAPERS TO FILE -- a place to put papers (except bills) as soon as they come in. This helps keep them from getting lost or misplaced. Just be sure you empty this folder at least once a month by moving the papers to their proper folder in the rest of the filing system.

BILLS TO BE PAID -- this is the one exception for papers as they come in. Put incoming bills in this folder. That way you can check often to see what needs to be paid. After they are paid mark "paid" and put into the "papers to be filed" folder if you don't take the time to file bills when they are paid. You may want to keep the above files at the beginning of the system so they are handy. The remaining files can be kept in alphabetical order.

BUDGET -- a copy of your current budget. Include with your budget, your record sheets of recording expenditures. If you use a computer program, you may want a printout of data in this file.

CHECKBOOK -- put your household checkbook and unused checks in this folder.

CHECK ACCOUNT -- here's the place for your canceled checks and past bank statements. Keep those canceled checks here until you refile them for tax purposes or for proof of such things as home improvements or investments.

CLOTHING -- keep all important care tags from clothing you purchase if the tag is not permanently affixed to the item. Keep purchase receipts until you are sure the item performs as expected, at least until after first laundry.

CREDIT CARDS AND CHARGE ACCOUNTS -- keep a list of your charge account numbers (a copy of this list should be in your safe deposit box), paid bills, and the phone numbers or addresses to contact if a card is lost.

EDUCATION RECORDS -- a list of who attended where, when graduated, degree or certificates awarded, etc.

EMPLOYMENT RECORDS -- paycheck stubs, resumes, a list of who worked where, when, immediate supervisor's name, address, pay rates, etc.

EQUIPMENT AND FURNISHINGS -- information about equipment and furnishings in the home, instruction books, warranties, sales slips for those items with still-valid warranties.

FINANCIAL PLANNING -- past budgets, a list of goal statements, new worth statements, household inventory, and notes to yourself through the year as you think of things to be considered when you do your annual financial planning.

HEALTH RECORDS -- record of immunizations, medical car, name of family doctor, his phone number, blood type, allergies, etc.

HOME -- evidence of home repairs and improvement such as receipts, contracts, and canceled checks, home ownership papers or your copy of the lease if you're a renter.

HOUSEHOLD MANAGEMENT -- a catchall file for information about food purchases, cleaning supplies, pest control, yard equipment, etc.

HOUSEHOLD MANAGEMENT (UTILITIES) -- paid utility bills to be used when figuring a new budget, other information relating to household utilities.

INSURANCE (CARS AND OTHER VEHICLES) -- copies or originals of insurance policy, with name and address of agent, record of claims filed and paid, a place to keep track of traffic violations and accidents.

INSURANCE (HEALTH) -- a copy of original of insurance policy with name and address of agent, and record of claims filed and paid.

INSURANCE (HOUSEHOLD) -- a copy or original of insurance policy with name and address of agent, and record of claims filed and paid.

INSURANCE (LIFE) - a copy or original of insurance policy with name and address of agent, and record of claims filed and paid.

ADD folders for insurance of other types that you have.

LOAN -- copies of outstanding loan agreements including personal and installment loans (put mortgage information here or in "HOME" file).

MAGAZINE -- name, cost, and expiration date of magazines and newspapers to which you subscribe.

MEMBERSHIPS -- Information about memberships in the various organizations to which you belong.

PROFESSIONAL -- information about business or professional activities.

RETIREMENT AND PENSION PLANS -- company retirement plans, personal retirement plans (Individual Retirement Accounts or Keogh) annuities, social security, etc.

SAFE DEPOSIT BOX -- a list of the items you have in your safe deposit box. Location of box and rental agreement.

SAVINGS AND INVESTMENTS -- savings account passbook, records of savings, certificates, information about stock and bond certificated, mutual fund shares, U.S. savings bonds, real estate and other investments (the actual certificates should be in your safe deposit box), the name, address and phone number of your broker.

TAXES -- income tax returns for the immediate past three years (put older returns in dead storage), property tax records for potential income tax deductions (may be broken into sub files such as TAXES -- MEDICAL; TAXES -- CONTRIBUTIONS; TAXES -- MOVING; etc.

Dead Files

Move papers out of "active" files and into " dead" storage (or toss) as soon as possible. At least once each year, go through your entire active filing system. Your "dead" storage files may be just a simple box or two in the attic or garage. These files hold papers you may just need someday in the future.

Your TAXES file in "dead" storage will include detailed records such as canceled checks, diaries, and what ever else backs up your return for at least five years, preferably 10 years. Then keep copies of all tax returns indefinitely with W-2 forms stapled to them.

Other file folder titles in "dead" storage might include, Home INVESTMENT, LOANS, PERSONAL PAPERS, and REAL ESTATE. For more information see "Create your own business center."

Money Matters: Family Business: Family Business Center

Dr. Jo Turner, Professor, Family and Consumer Economics

It is never too late to set up a home business center or reorganize your current one. The time you spend now may save you tax dollars later. Tax rules require records to support the information given on your tax forms.

Handling your personal finances will be much easier if you have a well-equipped home business center. It does not have to be elaborate. It should be located in a convenient, comfortable area of the home, contain necessary equipment, supplies, papers, records and references, and have a good light.

You may be able to find space for a home business center in just about any room of your house. Ideally, you would have a special room -- an office. But few homes today are large enough for such a luxury. Instead, consider a spare corner in the living room, dining room, a bedroom, kitchen or family room.

You'll also need storage space for inactive records. That space might be in the attic, garage, basement, under a bed, or those hard-to-reach top closet shelves, under stairs or in the back of a deep closet.

You will need some equipment for your home business center such as: an ample, sturdy writing surface; sturdy, comfortable chair; and storage space for current records and papers, equipment and supplies.

This does not automatically mean you need a desk and file cabinet. You can use the dining room table as your writing surface and a nearby cabinet or chest for storage space. A desk and storage unit can be built into an unused closet. A plywood or hollow core door mounted on two, two-drawer file cabinets provide both storage and writing surface. Or you could use a new or remodeled standard office desk and file, or a combination desk and metal file unit.

You also will need some supplies such as pencils, erasers, tape, account books, ruler, scissors, deposit slips, pencil sharpener, stationery, paper clips, rubber bands, stamps, a dictionary and wastepaper basket.

Other supplies that you may want, but that are not essential include: stapler, spindle, paper weights, address book, book ends, typewriter, parcel post scale, parcel post labels, glue, sponge for moistening envelopes and stamps, letter opener, hole punch, adding machine and bulletin board.

In your home business center you will need storage space for your equipment and supplies, reference materials, important papers and documents, bills, unanswered mail, current receipts, and a place to store inactive files.

For more information on what to keep in your business center contact your local county Extension office.



Money Management: Coping With Financial Stress

Dr. Jo Turner, Professor, Family and Consumer Economics

Financial stress is a common malady afflicting every household to some degree. If you're not complaining about the high price of food, shoes, or airline tickets, you're just out of step with the world today. Unemployment or inflation and its impact on family income are such accepted topics of conversation that you can strike up a good discussion anywhere, anytime, even with perfect strangers.

You can recognize financial stress by the pressures it imposes on your family.

  • You worry over bills, especially ones that are overdue, interest on revolving credit accounts keeps pilling up when you only make small payments on bills.

  • You worry over not being able to buy everything you want, especially if your children have to do without the things they want, the things other children have, or the things you want them to have because you never had them as a child.

  • You worry because you can't save any money. Every family should have a savings plan, shouldn’t they? But you put off saving until later.

  • You feel social pressures because you can't keep up with the neighbor's lifestyle, as well as the economic pressures of creditors or bill collectors.

  • You may have family tensions leading to arguments -- husband vs. wife, parents vs. child. You may get flak from your in-laws.

  • Even headaches and high blood pressure may result from these financial pressures.

Financial stress can be defined as a condition that occurs whenever income is less than desired outgo. If you are a victim of financial stress your only solution to the problem is to balance income and outgo. This balancing act can take two forms (1) either increased income or (2) decreased desired outgo. You do have a choice, but only in the long run if you are now deeply in debt. Debts you owe must be paid out of present and future income. Can you reduce your debts in the future? To reduce your debts in the future, it may be necessary to reduce your expectations for your style of living. Are you willing to make that choice?

  • When you have done everything possible to increase income, such as getting another job, putting another family member to work, working longer hours, getting a raise, or getting higher returns on investments;

  • When you've stretched your income through better buymanship -- planning ahead, buying only at sales, comparing prices, using coupons and refunds, buying only quality merchandise, and using it properly;

  • When you've substituted every other resource -- your time, energy, skills, and abilities for money and still feel pressure,

You may be ready to look at your basic lifestyle and decide to get just as much out of living but without the need to buy, buy, buy.

Living a simpler lifestyle requires planning, decision-making, and more cooperation among family members. But it can result in a calmer, happier family life, and a feeling of greater value from the money you spend. It won't occur unless you take some special steps to identify why you can't live within your income, and unless you make changes that will put less demand on financial resources. And, it won't occur unless you have the personal strength to stick with the decisions you have made.

Many ideas are available for coping with financial stress. Magazines, newspaper and other media all suggest ways to save money while shopping. A simpler lifestyle might require that you not make certain purchases at all. And, if your desired outgo is reduced you may be able to balance it with your income.

Consider the following tips to help you reduce outgo:

  • Think about the basic values you believe in, and define them for yourself. You might even write them down, and discuss them with other family members to see if they hold the same values. If health is a value you believe in, should you buy products to consume that would not provide better health for each family member? If integrity is another of your values should you make debts you may not be able to pay? Put each of your buying decisions to this type of test -- will buying and using the product or service help you live by the values you profess?

  • When you consider buying a new item think about what you already have. Especially in buying appliances, do you have to have every new appliance on the market? Do you already have something that does essentially the same thing? Apply this thinking to each purchase. Ask yourself this question, "What do I already have that could serve the same purpose?"

  • Be aware that certain purchases require upkeep; maintenance or accessory items that continue to drain the family budget.

  • Are you willing to learn new skills to provide for family needs?

  • Do you have the courage to say, "We can't afford it" to some purchases?

Making a few changes can help you reduce financial stress.

Family Album Radio: April Programming

Produced by University of Florida faculty and WUFT-FM, Family Album is based on unbiased social science research. This program presents a balanced view of the many changes families experience over the course of their lives such as having a baby, learning to be a good parent, helping teens develop their independence while maintaining family ties, re-feathering the empty nest, retiring and more. Family Album also covers the bumps in the road of family life; divorce, remarriage, work and family stress, and care for older adults.

Family Album talks about building strong marriages and creating open and healthy family communication. Family Album takes a positive approach to families, celebrating their diversity, stresses and strains, successes, and resiliency.

Family Album also features a companion Web site that provides off-air educational and promotional support for the program.
Programs for this month:

- Family Album Program # 262 - Disaster Prep - food & water
- Family Album Program # 263 - Suicide risk
- Family Album Program # 264 - Preventing childhood obesity
- Family Album Program # 265 - Types of marriages
- Family Album Program # 266 - Bone health
- Family Album Program # 267 - Exercise during pregnancy
- Family Album Program # 268 - Children and fear
- Family Album Program # 269 - Parental depression
- Family Album Program # 270 - Avoiding charitable giving fraud
- Family Album Program # 271 - Tax relief in disaster situations
- Family Album Program # 272 - Children & adolescents PTSD
- Family Album Program # 273 - The love culture
- Family Album Program # 274 - Youth caregivers in the US
- Family Album Program # 275 - Children's bad habits
- Family Album Program # 276 - Hormones & sexual behavior
- Family Album Program # 277 - How children react to natural disasters
- Family Album Program # 278 - How adolescents respond to natural disasters
- Family Album Program # 279 - Food safety and a tailgate party
- Family Album Program # 280 - Food safety tips for mail ordering food
- Family Album Program # 281 - Impact of care giving on children
- Family Album Program # 282 - Teens & after school activities
- Family Album Program # 283 - Household debt and IRAs


Donna Davis is the voice and Senior Producer of Family Album Radio. She has worked professionally in broadcasting and as a voice artist for the past 17 years in TV, Radio, and Film. She holds a B.S. in Journalism from the University of Florida and an M.S. in Family, Youth and Community Sciences at the University. She has been working for more than 20 years in the field of communications including teaching as an adjunct instructor in the College of Journalism and Communications at UF since 1982.

Suzanna Smith, PhD, Executive Producer, is Associate Professor of Human Development and Family Relations in the Department of Family, Youth and Community Sciences at the University of Florida. She has been at the University of Florida since 1988. She has a Ph.D. in Child and Family Development, a Master's Degree in Social Work and a B.A. in Sociology.

2006 Tax Filing Season

Written By: Dr. Jo Turner

The tax filing deadline this year, April 17, is just around the corner!
The IRS has introduced new and
improved tools and services to the IRS website just in time for the 2006 Tax
Filing season.

These are some of the new and improved features:

1040 Central This is an easy way to find the forms, tools and publications most taxpayers will need to prepare their taxes this year.

Free File
If you have an adjusted gross income under $50,000 a year, you may be eligible
to file your taxes online at no cost!

AMT Assistant
- If you are not using software to complete your taxes, this
handy calculator will help you determine whether you should pay the alternative
minimum tax (AMT).

EITC Assistant This tool assists in finding out whether you are eligible for this
valuable tax credit.

Hurricane Assistance The IRS is also offering a number of resources for those people in areas hit by Rita, Katrina and Wilma.

Where's My Refund If you are waiting on a refund, trace it online.

For more information explore our other money management links or contact Jo Turner.

Estate Planning Series: Managing & Transferring Assets

Written by: Dr. Jo Turner

Managing Assets

At some point in your life you may become ill or incapacitated and need someone to manage your assets. A power of attorney or a trust agreement may be the solution to your problem.

A power of attorney is a legal document authorizing someone of your choice to act for you. The power may be general and broad or limited to specific functions.

A trust can also serve a management function for your financial affairs. A trust is a legal arrangement through which a third party, a trustee for either your benefit or that of your beneficiaries holds your assets.

Transferring Assets

A number of methods can be used to transfer property including gifting the property to the desired beneficiary before your death to leaving property in trust for the beneficiary to receive at some point after your death. Whatever methods you choose to distribute your property after death, careful planning will enhance the likelihood of an orderly transfer with minimum taxes.

At death, the individual settling the estate for the deceased must locate and list all property. This listing is made so that the court can decide whether any death taxes are due to the state and federal governments, and so that all the property can be distributed to the heirs.

A total of the property owned is called the gross estate, and consists of everything that belongs to the deceased, either individually or jointly with others. This property may be in the form of land, buildings, equipment, money, stocks, bonds, or other financial assets and personal possessions.

Florida law permits property to be held in one of four ways. The implications for managing and transferring property are different for each type.

  1. “Sole ownership” often called fee simple is one way to own property. The sole (one) owner has the right to sell, mortgage or give away the property during his/her lifetime and to name the recipient of the property after death by using a will.
  2. “Tenancy by the Entirety” is a form of ownership that exist in Florida, the District of Columbia and 23 other states. This form of ownership is restricted to property held between a husband and wife. No one owner may sell or dispose of his or her portion without the permission of the other owner. At the death of one owner the property automatically passes to the surviving spouse.
  3. “Joint Tenancy with Rights of Survivorship” is the most common form of co-ownership. Individuals who hold property this way have an interest, which is undivided and fractional, that is they all own it together, not in equal shares. When an owner dies the total property held in this manner becomes the sole property of the other owner(s). This property does not need to be listed in a will, since the owner(s) has/have been designated. Most joint bank accounts are held this way. This does not mean that transfer will occur immediately or that taxes won’t have to be paid.
  4. The fourth type of ownership is called “Joint Tenants in Common” or “Tenancy in Common.” When this term is used on ownership papers, each owner designates his or her heirs. It is generally assumed, unless otherwise specified, that all tenants own equal shares. Each tenant may designate through a will who is to receive his/her share of the property.

People who hold property in sole ownership or fee simple, or as joint tenants in common should write a will indicating how they want the property to be distributed. Otherwise, in the absence of a will, laws of descent and distribution will determine who gets the property.

Remember real property is subject to laws of the state in which it is located. Therefore if you own real estate in several states make sure your will complies with laws in all those states. It is recommended that your will be reviewed ever five years or when changes have occurred in your life such as marriage, divorce, children leaving the nest, or death of an heir.

Information sources:

Garman, E. Thomas and Forgue Raymond E. Personal Finance. 6th ed. NY: Houghton Mifflin Company. 2000.

www.forbes.com “What’s an entirety?

Family Album Radio: Learning Starts at Birth

Written by: Suzanna Smith

Reviewed by: Donna Davis

Few new parents gaze into their baby’s crib and
imagine getting their newborn ready for school. That seems ages away! However, learning actually begins when a baby first opens her or his eyes. “Research shows that children are born ready to learn” (Zero to Three). The natural curiosity and trying to make sense of the world around them in infants show readiness for learning.

Here are some ways to help excite children about learning, even as babies and toddlers:
  • Talk together. Copy your baby’s sounds and encourage your baby to imitate you.

  • Point out and name the things around you. For instance, as you peel a potato, show it to your baby, say what it is, and let her or him touch it.

  • Give your child things or toys they can touch, bang, and shake, so they learn
    how things work. http://www.zerotothree.org/schoolreadiness/

  • Use math games in your daily routines. Count stairs as you climb, or peas on the plate.
    reading to toddlers

  • Give choices, based on the child’s age. For instance, young children may be able to decide between two books to read before bed.

  • Let your child be the problem solver, figuring out a solution herself or himself.

  • Read together. It’s never too early to start! And when you read together, let your child hold the book and point to the pictures as you read—even if they hold the book upside down!

Young children “learn best through their everyday experiences with the people they love and when learning is fun.” (Zero to Three, Pointers for Parents).

Listening, learning and living together, it’s the science of life. “Family Album” is a co-production of University of Florida, IFAS Extension, the Department of Family, Youth and Community Sciences and WUFT-FM.

Information Sources:

Positive Parenting Tips Birth to age 1 from the CDC/Department of Health and Human Services.

http://www.cdc.gov/ncbddd/child/infants.htm

Zero to Three. (n.d.) Pointers for Parents: Smart Ways to Help Children Learn.

Parlakian, R. (2003). Before the ABCs: Promoting school readiness in infants and toddlers. Washington, DC: Zero to Three

Zero to Three. (n.d.) Getting ready for school begins at birth. Retrieved January 25, 2006 from
http://www.zerotothree.org/schoolreadiness/

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