Written By: Suzanna Smith
Reviewed By: Donna Davis

Recently a friend’s mother Alice was diagnosed with lung cancer and, even though she received all the possible treatments, the cancer was incurable. She went into Hospice care so that she could get professional help in preparing herself and her family for her death.

Hospice programs are available in communities around the country “to help terminally ill individuals live their remaining days with dignity” (AoA, 2003, p. 1) while “surrounded by their loved ones” (Hospice Association of America, 1994). Usually, hospice patients “are in their last six months of life” and the majority, about two-thirds, are over the age of 65 (Hospice Foundation of America, 2006).

A hospice team “works with the patient and his or her family to develop a personalized care plan” (Hospice Foundation of America, 2006) that will make “the patient as comfortable as possible” (AoA, 2003, p. 1). Hospice care is usually provided in the patient’s home, with a family member giving most of the care, but hospice can also be at a special hospice residence, a nursing home, hospital, or long term care facility (National Hospice and Palliative Care Organization).

Talking about death may be painful and difficult under any circumstances. “Counseling services for the patient and loved ones are an important part of hospice care” and can include visits, phone calls, support groups, and bereavement counseling and information after the patient’s death (National Hospice and Palliative Care Organization).The Hospice team is specially trained to provide not only medical assistance but also to help the patient and family deal with the loneliness and fears that come as they face the end of life (Hospice Foundation of America, 2006).

References
Administration on Aging. (2003). Hospice care: A Guide for Families. Washington, DC: U.S. Department of Health and Human Services.

Hospice Association of America. (1994). All about Hospice: A consumer’s guide. Retrieved March 28, 2006 from http://www.hospice-america.org/guide.html


Hospice Foundation of America. (2006). Hospice patients and staff. Retrieved March 28, 2006 from http://www.hospicefoundation.org/hospiceInfo/patients.asp.

National Hospice and Palliative Care Organization (n.d.). Caring Connections. Retrieved March 28, 2006 from http://www.caringinfo.org/i4a/pages/index.cfm?pageid=3466.

-Suzanna D. Smith, Ph.D.

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Written by:Suzanna Smith
Reviewed by: Donna Davis

Playing with your baby is a very important way that you can nurture your child’s development.

From birth to 12 months, babies begin to play by using all their senses. Their eyes, ears, nose, hands and mouth are their tools. By the time they are 9 months, most babies can understand cause and effect—for example, they push the button on the toy and music plays. They can also understand that things still exist that they can’t see. When the ball rolls behind the couch, the baby will hunt for it.

Parents are their baby’s favorite toy, and can help their baby learn and have fun by trying some of these playtime games. Go back and forth by imitating your baby’s sounds and waiting for her or him to respond. “Encourage” your baby “to copy you, too.” (Zero to Three).

Play peek-a-boo.

Sing and dance for your baby, even if you don’t have the greatest voice or moves.

Listen to different types of music to see what your baby likes best.

Sing lullabies at bedtime, or favorite family songs in the car or as you go for a walk.

These simple games will bring a sparkle to your baby’s eyes while also teaching important concepts like cause and effect, communication skills, and eye hand coordination. They also show that he or she is important through the joy you express from playing with your baby.

Information Sources:

Positive Parenting Tips

Birth to age 1 from the CDC/Department of Health and Human Services. http://www.cdc.gov/ncbddd/child/infants.htm

Zero to Three. (n.d.).The power of play.
Washington, DC: Claire Lerner, L.C.S.W. and Sharon Greenip, M.Ed.; ZERO TO THREE 2004
Segal, Marilyn, 1998. (2nd Edition). Your Child at Play: Birth to One Year; Discovering the Senses and Learning
About the World.

Segal, Marilyn, 1998. (2nd Edition).Your Child at Play: One to Two Years; Exploring, Learning, Making Friends and Pretending.

Segal, Marilyn, 1998. (2nd Edition). Your Child at Play: Two to Three Years; Growing Up, Language, and the Imagination

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