Listen to the podcast: Being a Nurturing ParentWritten by: Donna Davis and reviewed by Suzanna Smith
In the hustle and bustle of our day-to-day lives, juggling our families, work, chores, finances, homework and car pools can feel overwhelming at times. As parents, sometimes managing the varying needs of our children can seem especially challenging. However, the effort and energy of healthy, nurturing and frequent interactions with your children will provide rewards that last a lifetime.
According to the National Clearinghouse on Child Abuse and Neglect Information, steps you can take to strengthen your relationship with your children include, making certain your children know you love them, even when they do something wrong. Offer your children encouragement and praise for the skills they’re developing. Spend time with your children and learn to listen to them. Also, use nonphysical options for discipline such as using “time out” or something as simple as redirecting their attention.
Additionally, provide your children with access to people and activities that help them develop healthy and supportive relationships. For example, take your children to museums, libraries or sporting events. Take advantage of youth enrichment programs and religious or youth groups in your community. In addition, be sure to communicate with your children’s teachers or childcare providers.
Finally, when you need help, ask for it. Parenting, much less life in general, can be difficult. Seek respite care, parenting classes, counseling or an understanding friend or relative for support when your stress may be affecting the way you treat your child.
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